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I am looking for someone similar to myself- someone kind, introspective, intelligent, with a deep soul; someone who loves kids (I have two that are with me half the time) and doesn't mind a cat that is pretty much hidden 90 percent of the time; someone who is romantic, who will want to take beach and mountain vacations with me, who will want to fall asleep under the stars after talking for hours. Some additional things I am very passionate about: Game of Thrones (I think that makes me a dork), the enneagram (I actually teach it and use it in my line of work) and peaceful parenting (well, as much as possible with two small children, anyways :)) I care more about the quality of a man's heart and character than I do about the superficial things a lot of people worry about.

I’m sorry- I don’t like sports and I’m not outdoorsy. I only mention it because that is stated in SO many profiles, heavens!, and I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.
I’m
An infj on the Myers Briggs; Im an artist, a reader, an introvert, a poet, a highly sensitive person; I’m passionate and empathetic and I care deeply about the world and the people in it, I don’t have to know someone to care. I crave to be touched, i crave to understand and be understood, I crave intelligent conversation and depth. Im on a spiritual path and I want someone to join me. If you have a small child it’s actually a plus, my wild child needs a playmate, but I have put my baby making days behind me. And if you don't have kids, but have room in your heart for the most precious boy and girl imaginable (I have 50/50 joint custody) then we may be a match. In any case I'm a package deal, but it's a beautiful package.

My match? Someone done with the partying scene and who wants to build an authentic and beautiful life with someone. Someone I would likely find on a conscious/spiritual dating site. Someone that won't pressure me to watch sports and work out with him. Someone who will be interested in going on retreats, Enneagram classes, maybe even get into some of my medieval reenactment hobbies (I pain scrolls). Or someone who can just enjoy a romantic dinner out. Or a romantic evening in. And I love love love scary movies. And historical shows like The Last Kingdom.

I think that's a pretty decent summary of me, and you can ask questions if you would like to know more :)