It's only been since 2022 that I started looking deeper within and rediscovering my true, authentic self. That was the year that I opened my mind, and dove deep into my healing and had my spiritual awakening.

Like many of us, I got caught up in the programming of society. Thinking that I always need to be doing more, and falling for the distractions. I am remembering my true self; a man that is patient, calm, understanding, and forgiving. I have also learned to reinforce my boundaries as needed though. I became a people pleaser, and lost myself, and never again will I go down that path. I have strong opinions but also understand that there is a time and place for expressing them or not.

I have been told many times that I am an empath. This makes sense because I am no longer comfortable with the exposure to negativity that I used to tolerate.

Healthy eating is important to me. I have made huge improvements in my eating habits and knowledge of food. I still have plenty to learn, and I would enjoy cooking together. As my skills improve, I would like to have days where I surprise my lady with homemade meals where she doesn't have to do anything but enjoy the feast. I currently don't have that special lady in my life though; I am accepting applications! 😁

The energies of the divine feminine and masculine working together and complementing as nature intended, is key to this world finding a harmonious balance. My ideal partner will understand this as neither of us will look at the other as being above or below the other. We will allow and embrace eachother to be strong in our roles, creating a powerful partnership.

Alcohol is something that I gave up completely in 2017. I have no desire to ever have another drop again. I am not opposed to dating someone that drinks occasionally and responsibly, but I won't date a heavy drinker. I haven't smoked MJ in a long time, but I have no ill feelings towards the plant. Every job I have worked conducted random testing so I quit many years ago. I like being sober, so much more clarity.

Kids! I love children and the sense of family unity. I always thought that I was going to have kids but my life was destined for a different path apparently. It used to bother me and I felt like I missed my window of opportunity, but now I just surrender to the way of the universe and look at the upside of everything. I believe that if I had kids, that I wouldn't have pursued my spiritual path because I would have prioritized caring for my family. I welcome dating someone with kids of any age. I am looking for a long term relationship so I hope that your family and the important people in your life will accept me.

I am not fond of many aspects of California, but I have built a good situation for myself where I am and will be staying here for several years. I am open to moving out of state in the future. However, the part of California which I live in is beautiful! It's only a one hour drive to the Majestic Mount Shasta, I am surrounded by beautiful lakes, rivers, waterfalls, mountains, and it's only a 3 hour drive to the ocean. It really is a beautiful place.

I will continue adding to this profile as I have time. More pics to come too

I am currently a truck driver, I drive locally, normal work hours Monday through Friday and I am home every night. However, I have been investing for some time now and I am ready to drop down to part time work or possibly quit driving completely and be semi-retired.

I don't like or follow any sports. Most other men find this really strange but that's just me, I don't seek outside validation or try to be accepted by fitting in based on something that my heart doesn't desire. I have no qualms with sports or friendly competition, it's just not for me.

Being aware of the programming in society. Knowing that we are all one. Living with, and facing my shadow parts, balance between my ego and my higher self. We chose to be here and have this human experience so I embrace those emotions and learn from every experience. Embracing the love and light but being realistic enough to know that it's not always about that.

I've been on this Journey since September of 2022, that's when I met a kind hearted psychic that coached me. She got me into meditation and looking within. I was curious and had questions and thoughts about the higher realm, spirits, and afterlife, etc for as far back as I can remember, but pushed it aside and listened to the narrow mindedness of others. In 2017, my little sister passed away and it crushed me! I skeptically met with a medium in 2018, and got confirmation that my sis was still with me. From there, the curiosity had reignited and I finally took action on feeding that curiosity in 2022. Now, here I am, growing everyday and finding my true self. I never felt that I was on the right path until my spiritual awakening. I owe everything to my sister; I would still take her place and die instead of her if presented the option, but I know that the universe doesn't work that way.

I am a Kundalini Activation facilitator. This is the most common modality that I am exposed to, I frequently exchange services with some of my fellow facilitators that I trained together with. I am also reiki level 1 certified and will soon go through the training for level 2.

I have a German Shepherd named Stella, and a black lab mix named Zeus. They are my babies! They are getting older, and once they cross that rainbow bridge, I plan on taking a break from having any more pets as I want the flexibility to travel more. I know that there will eventually be dogs in my life again, so I can't be with someone who doesn't like dogs.