Hello there, and thank you for visiting my page 🌺
I'm currently settling down in Spain, looking to create a home base here — though I still wish to keep traveling, of course! 😃 🧳

I work as an alternative therapist (a lot related to ASC), and I’m always busy with various "out of the box" projects, trying to figure out the next steps in this new environment, far from my Asian home.
I love authenticity, soulful conversations, animals, road trips and adventures, nature, art, and connecting through different language families.

For over 20 years, I’ve been passionate about cultural anthropology, Noetic sciences, ancient wisdom, and healing modalities.
I love traveling the world while seeking my own answers, bridging theories and fields of expertise — for example, where science meets spirituality and metaphysics — before new questions inevitably arise. Currently writing a book (a dialogue between a medium and an anthropologist around the topic of communication with the diseased — deconstructing dogmas of all sources and limiting beliefs).
I'm fond of Eastern philosophies, mindfulness, nature and yoga retreats among others. I see my path as a continuous journey towards truth, liberation, and growth.

I'm soooo terrible at small talk, and I tend to quickly disengage from superficial conversations, fast-food spirituality, solutionnist mentality and spiritual ego trips.
I observe that we Westerners speak so much about spirituality because, in most of our cultures, we've lost the connection to the sacred aspect of life. But since that sacredness is intrinsically present, why do we need so many pseudo-spiritual concepts and external expressions to prove the fundamental existence of a nature that—if it weren’t there—we wouldn’t exist anyway?

I love exploration and adventure, but I also value stability, cosy, and the joy of a peaceful cocoon to share with the right person, at the right time for him 🙋🏽‍♂️(😁) and for me.
I cherish the idea of experiencing and enjoying life together in all its multifaceted aspects — in balance. I appreciate Jung’s perspective on the union of opposites and don't believe much in extremes or radical positions (without consequences 💥😅)!
Since early on, I've naturally leaned towards the Middle Way — Zhongyang, as the ancient Chinese called it.
Just like in Chinese paintings, where various strokes and shades of grey come together to convey the Qi of the universe, I need that balance of ingredients in my life too.
I believe that to be spiritually connected, we also need good grounding in the material world — and to truly feel satisfied in the material, spiritual fulfillment is also essential. To me, they are two expressions of one essential source.

In partnership, I value serenity, peace, exclusivity, and the beauty of mirroring and supporting each other — through ups and downs. I believe in being at the same time pragmatic and idealistic, free-spirited and grounded, kindhearted and creatively audacious.
I especially appreciate when a man is protective and consistent, when he lives with integrity and has a heart filled with loving kindness and generosity — values that are very dear to me.

These days, I prioritize authentic, mindful, and balanced exchanges based on a real possibility to meet in person (not just endless online chatting for attention’s sake).

Let’s share a chill moment over a drink, have a good laugh, take a walk, or chase a fantastic sunset ✨🤩

👋 😊 I'm still new here, and it seems I can only reply to emails for now…