I am older than most, but with that maturity comes a high spiritual vibration which is transferable in a loving intimate relationship. That energy flows through me.

A spontaneous Kundalini awakening changed my perspective.
I feel deeply what happens in this life but I am also aware that I am observing what seems to be happening. An appearance in consciousness
Form, formless, both and neither
That's a quote, but it reflects what we are.

A recent post of mine on a thread I started many years ago

https://projectavalon.net/forum4/showthread.php?860-Enlightenment-The-Ego-what-is-it-How-to-transcend-it.&p=1655520&viewfull=1#post1655520


I spent most of my youth in Findhorn village, I learned to sail there
Being alone on the water.
Racing sailing dinghies
I walk in forests (Reelig) near Inverness and other places
I love.
Quiet - stillness..
Nature,
There is nothing but consciousness However that is my undersanding not my current perception.
Im naturally Kundalini awakened.
Bio energy practitioner and Reiki Master..
Fit for my age, friends say i look ten years younger.

Jesus said - "Of myself I do nothing, it is the Father withiin"
Im not too sure about free will.
Destiny, fate.

The books I found most helpful are

A Course in Miricales
(I went to a study group in Findhorn for several years)


The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

Power VS Force by Dr David R Hawkins
I went to a seminer put on by the late Dr Hawkind at Longbeach California after reading Poer vs Force - - I read mosst of his books.

Perfect Brilliant Stillness by David Carse
This audio book is on u tube with an account of his K awakening and Enlightenment
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tiw9dHLvEog&list=PLR6lUhUKbN4JLwYdo2eqoAFh3tn0AbAYS

Nasargadatta also on u tube.
Many different levels of spirituality - all valid - a person is exactly where they are supposed to be.
Divine will.
.The play of consciousness.

Ego - - is identification with the story of me
I am not the story.

However I have to tell a little of what happened in this life experience, being consciousnessh/spirit aving a human experience

I was fortunate to have breakfast with Eckhart and Kin Tolle after a Findhorn retreat.
He is very quiet and humble - almost shy off stage.

I look for affection and a loving relationship, an equal one.
For me love is expressed through touch, intimacy in the truest sense of the word
I dont have limitations or carry baggage from the past. I have a loving nature and respect females as equal.
Im a bass guitarist,singer, still playing with friends.
I walk daily and do Qui Gong.
i love to touch and be touched, love life important to me and have read books on sacred sexuality (Margo Anand - Mantak Chia) Never had a partner to practise this with though, willing to learn.

All this said I have a deep acceptance of what is.
(let go let God) I am that.
I meditate and do mantra daily.
I have had the experience of Divine energy flowing through me a couple of times.during intimacy
The experience was wonderful.
Perhaps you have experienced something similar too, if so I would love to listen.

Has a truly loving nature Easy going.with a sense of humour, does not take life too seriously.
Enjoys foreplay, equal receiving and giving.
Ideally she believes in Tantra as a way of lif, also a spiritual way of making love (Sacred sex}
Is a lover of water-- swim together.
I like swimming naked but prefer warmer water than Scotland provides,.
All my longterm relationships have been with younger women. I did not look for that to happen it just does. I do appreciate older women though.
Age is not relevent, the attraction of like mined person and their spiritual energy is important though.

All these are preferences-- as long as the energy is compatable all will be well

I did not Join Spiritualsingles to have a normal relationship.
To me age is not relevent, its the level of consciousness
The SELF is eternal --no beginig no end.
When that is understood fully all that counts is the energy attraction, you can't choose who you fall in love with..

Equal desire and want to please the other.

Can communicate easily what pleases each other...
A woman who knows what she wants and is open about her intimate "needs"

Sometime just caring, respect and fondness enough -- love a bonus.
A parntner who loves to caress. touch., turning in bed to cuddle my back means a lot spooning.#
I want to be overwhelmed by the Divine love that flows through a female to ignite the Divine love within me to flow through her. May I find that. We are on a spiritual journey to discover our true Self.

An understanding of Tantra really sets out a beautiful loving relationship.
The Divine enegy just flows betweenMale and female
In particular with a Kundalini awakened soul the spiritual energy is transferable, raising the vibration of both.

One without a second. (Advaita)
The Divine (God) is omnipresent -- there is no place that energy is not, thefore the Dvine is withinn the seeming seperate individuals
This is my belief, but not my experience as yet.

47 years ago I joined AA and that started the "search" I have not had a drink for those 47 years.
I went to ashrams in India three times.
Saw Sai Baba, spent a month on his ashram, one amazing Christmas
Intensive with Ramesh Balsekar
Weeks with Gurugi (Dr Goels), the Kundalini Master

A spontaneous Kundalini awakening (I did ot know what it was)
Led me to go to Guruji 's Ashram
Kundalini rewires thenervous system to accept a higher spiritual vibration --it also removes past trauma -- clens the chakras. Purifys.

Then study of of Non-duality
Advaita --One without a second.

Im a qualified Bio - energy therapist, Hypnotherapist. NLP practitioner., Reiki Master.
There is a healing gift which comes with Kundalini awakening, hands on healing, the energy flows.

I am not the body, I am the indweller

A quote "Events happen, Deeds are done, but there is no individual doer there of"

Only consciousness is
Nothing but energy at various vibrations.

Thats my current understanding -- not saying I know.

To have an intimate, sacred, loving relationship, (Divine Female - Divine Masculine) to truly please the one I'm fortunate to be with.
An equal relationship.

I realy want a simple loving relationship.
to wake up beside my lover.

All the rest is cream on the cake.

Books by Margo Anand are excellent as to the possibilities.
If you are interested in Sacred love making you can find them on Amazon
Loads of videos on utube re Tantra.
Sacred love making raises the spiritual vibration of both the male and female

Sure im fist for my age but i need a little, peace and quiet shared, walks, anything else a bonus.
Im happy to be with a strong woman - and follow her lead - whatever she wants to do where ever she wants to go - i am with her.
I will support her in her spiritual search, and there is the possibility of a transfer of spiritual energy through the chakras during togetherness - bonding.

Thanks for reading this rather long profile.
Words don't really do it.
My photos all taken in 2024-25