Divorce Was the Break. Reinvention Is the Beat.
Erin Reynolds
Divorce rips through your life like a sudden change in weather - one minute you're clear skies, and the next you're looking for shelter. But beneath the storm sits a quiet opportunity: the space to rewrite your own name. Reinvention isn't some cinematic glow-up montage; it's raw, boring, beautiful, one-decision-at-a-time transformation. You wake up alone, yes - but also unfiltered, unpaused, unowned. This isn't about pretending you're fine; it's about deciding what fine looks like on your terms. You're not "starting over." You're editing. With more authorship this time. Personal Growth Through Healing The truth is, most people aren't prepared for what comes after a deep ending. You don't just lose a person - you lose context, pacing, direction. But there's an odd freedom in all that empty space. Transitions, even painful ones, can become invitations to listen more closely to what matters. You get to ask: What kind of life am I willing to fight for now? You
Planning Green, Planning Sane: Tech Tools for Conscious Couples Who Want Both
Erin Reynolds
You want the day to feel like you. Rooted in your values. Reflective of what matters. But somewhere between guest lists, budget spreadsheets, and cross-country travel plans, the vision gets cloudy. Suddenly, sustainability feels like a luxury. Tech can change that. The right tools don't just lighten your workload-they let your wedding feel like a continuation of your real life, not a departure from it. You shouldn't have to choose between doing this your way and doing it the right way. Cut the Waste Without Cutting Corners You've seen it-wedding suites full of envelopes, RSVP cards, stamps, inserts. Gorgeous, sure. But is all that paper worth the footprint? Digital invitation platforms reduce paper waste without losing elegance. You can customize, automate, even update details in real time, all without...
Where to Meet Single Vegans
Jill Crosby
If you’ve tried some dating apps or sites and still haven’t met your special, vegan partner, maybe it’s time to try something different! As a vegan, it’s definitely easier to date another vegan, or at least someone who eats a plant-based diet. The best place to meet other vegans is a niche online dating site or app that markets to vegans, like GreenSingles.com, which has in-depth, detailed profiles and no superficial swiping. Once you join for free, then you’ll want to complete your profile so other members can learn about you. Think of your profile as a screening mechanism which will screen others in or out! When creating your profile, make sure to answer the questions honestly, as when it goes well, you will be meeting in person and they will be...
The Art of the Ambush: How to Plan a Surprise Trip They’ll Never See Coming (But Never Forget)
Erin Reynolds
Planning a surprise trip is part choreography, part emotional sleight of hand. You’re orchestrating memories in advance, hiding delight inside details, and shaping every step with intention. For eco-conscious couples, the thrill isn’t just in the destination — it’s in the thoughtfulness. A trip that lands hard doesn’t require luxury; it requires intimacy, curiosity, and rhythm. Whether you’re pulling off a weekend reveal or designing a weeklong escape, the difference is in the way you build — not just what you book. Find a Destination That Speaks — Not Shouts Skip the obvious. You’re not looking for “top 10 romantic places” — you’re looking for somewhere that fits them. Think in contrasts: do they unwind best in motion or stillness? Would they rather sip coffee at sunrise in a misty valley or walk barefoot through hot city nights? Lean into the unexpected. There’s a world of hidden romantic getaway ideas that feel surprising not because they’re far, but
A Newlywed's Guide for the Eco-Conscious Couple
Erin Reynolds
Marriage is more than matching rings and Pinterest-perfect vows, it’s the daily choice to grow something lasting. For eco-conscious couples just emerging from the whirlwind of a wedding, the real adventure starts here. Now is the moment when toothbrushes mingle in shared cups and thermostats become collaborative battlegrounds. Sustainability and partnership don’t compete; they fuse. You’re not just cohabiting, you’re co-creating. This guide isn’t about lofty ideals, it’s about the real stuff: dollars, compost bins, and compromise. Combining Finances After Marriage Before you start dreaming about that chicken coop or graywater system, you need to sort the cash. Building a budget that respects both your goals and your values is key, and it starts with full transparency: credit scores, debts, recurring donations, all of it. Begin with financial planning that balances...
25 Green Dating Ideas for Eco-Conscious Lovebirds
Ella Castillo
Good news for all the sustainable sweethearts out there-engaging in eco-friendly activities isn’t just beneficial for the planet; it may actually strengthen romantic relationships over time. Some studies indicate that eco-conscious partners may be more attractive, cooperative, and trustworthy mates, all of which can lead to a more fruitful and fulfilling relationship for you both. So, when it comes to date night, how do you woo a partner who also embraces a green lifestyle? Here are 25 date activity ideas that are good for your relationship and the planet. Plant a small garden Love is in the air…and in the soil. Take time out of a sunny day to get a little dirty and soak up those endorphin-boosting microbes while spending quality time with your...
Celebrate Your True Self With This Guide To Building Self-Confidence
Erin Reynolds
Loving the body you are in and the life you are living is a journey that begins with self-acceptance and continues through self-improvement. Confidence is key, as is the realization that it's perfectly okay to enhance your natural features or change up your lifestyle if it aligns with your goals. All of that begins with focusing on the things you truly love about yourself, and valuing what you dream of becoming. This guide will help you cultivate self-worth and make positive changes in your life, starting from within. Align Your Goals with Your Core Values and Passions Understanding what truly matters to you is essential for personal fulfillment. Identify your core values and passions, as they serve as the foundation for your goals. When your actions align with these values, you experience a deeper sense of purpose and satisfaction. This alignment not only keeps you motivated but also boosts your confidence, as you...
New Year, New You: Simple Ways to Start Fresh
The start of a new year is like a reset button – a chance to rethink your goals, make changes, and create a life you’re excited about. Whether you aim to level up in your career, feel more balanced mentally, or simply find joy in your everyday routine, now’s the time to go for it. Today, Green Singles shares these practical tips to help you start the year strong! Add Mindfulness to Your Daily Life If life feels hectic, mindfulness might just be your secret weapon. It’s all about being present in the moment and tuning out distractions, and it doesn’t have to be complicated. Even a few minutes of meditation can make a difference because it helps you focus and manage stress; research shows it changes parts of your brain that handle attention and emotions. Try a guided meditation app or sit quietly for a few minutes each...
The Foundation of Happiness: Building Strong Relationships in the Home and Heart
Erin Reynolds
Amidst the relentless pursuit of happiness, we frequently underestimate the profound and transformative influence our living spaces wield over our mental health and emotional well-being. It’s a subtle yet undeniably powerful force, capable of shaping the very essence of our lives. This article, courtesy of Green Singles, is an ode to those who understand the immense potential residing within their homes. It is dedicated to couples who aspire to craft not just houses, but havens. The Home as a Metaphor for Relationships Maintaining a home is akin to nurturing a relationship. Just as a house requires upkeep and occasional renovation, so do our relationships. Neglecting either can lead to deterioration. Just as a leaking roof can damage a house, unresolved conflicts can erode the bonds...
A Guide to Dating in Your Golden Years
Ella Castillo
A Guide to Dating in Your Golden Years Dating after the age of 65 can be an exciting and enriching experience. At this stage in life, you're likely retired or considering retirement, have a good sense of who you are, and know what you want in your golden years. This can be a great time to explore new connections, find shared values, and embrace a deeper understanding of relationships. But if you’re not quite sure how to look for love later in life, these tips can help. We’ve got everything you need to find a conscious connection with someone who suits you. Navigating the Online Dating Scene: Tips and Strategies Online dating is an excellent way to meet new people at any age. Green Singles will always do everything possible to promote safe and healthy encounters, but knowing how to look after yourself in the digital dating world is important, too. Be Honest and Authentic When creating your profile, be open about your...
7 Ways to Veganize your Sex Life!
Jill Crosby
Ready for some stimulating, sensuality, while still keeping it vegan? Has your sex life turned into regular routine? Whether you are single or in a relationship, here are some creative ideas to spice up the romance and amp up your sensuality. Of course, I recommend supporting local businesses by purchasing the items below at your local organic grocer or farmers’ market. Here are some natural aphrodisiacs and sexy suggestions to in-JOY with your date, lover, and/or...
Do’s & Don’ts Of Online Dating: Safety Tips | Green Singles
Ella Castillo
How To Stay Safe When Dating Online Creating an online dating profile is a big decision for anyone seeking a lasting, loving relationship. For many, it represents a moment of bravery and willingness to put themselves out there and try something new for the sake of future happiness. Or at least, that’s the plan! But online dating can come with some risks, and staying safe online is essential for protecting your identity, guarding your heart, and preventing unwanted situations. Green Singles will always do everything it can to safeguard your information and promote healthy, respectful online encounters. However, knowing how to navigate this world independently can protect you and improve your chances of finding your perfect, conscious match. Tips and Best Practices To Embrace For Safe Online Dating Safe online dating is not very different from general internet safety. Caution, patience, and a little bit of respectful digging...
Save Money by Saving Energy, Even on Dates
Ali Parsons
Investing your effort into saving energy could potentially cut the country’s projected energy use by about 23 percent by 2020, which would save as much as save $1.2 trillion! With figures like these, we should all be saving energy by cutting back on the waste we create and being more energy efficient by using improved products and innovative solutions. With negative news about global warming, depleting oceans and endangered animals constantly on our radar, it's often hard to know where to start. So, if you’re waking up to a world vision of humanity that's a little discouraging and wondering how you can do even more for the environment, you can start reducing your carbon footprint with these ideas.
Can We Prioritize Substance Over Appearance?
Ella Castillo
Looks-Based Attraction: Can We Re-Train Our Brains to Value Substance Over Shine? It’s hard to deny that looks play a big role in choosing a partner. While having the same beliefs, views, and attitudes is important, physical attributes are right up there, too. But in judging someone by their looks, are our brains subconsciously causing us to miss out on what could be amazing connections and incredible relationships? We have to ask ourselves, is it a fundamental part of human nature to prioritize people’s outward appearances over their inner substance? Or is it something that’s learned and enforced by society and can, therefore, be changed? We’re here to explore the issue from every angle. We’re going to start off by looking at why it’s important to place great value on inner substance, as well as some arguments for why prioritizing looks may be problematic in relationships. We’ll...
Eco-Chic: Crafting Your Stylish, Sustainable Wedding
Erin Reynolds
Planning a wedding that is both mindful of the environment and stunningly elegant is not only feasible but also deeply rewarding. A celebration that merges ecological responsibility with exquisite taste sets the stage for a meaningful union. Here, we guide you through the essential aspects to consider when planning your eco-friendly wedding without compromising on sophistication or allure. Choose Eco-Friendly Attire Choosing wedding attire that is both eco-friendly and stylish is easier than you may think. Look for fabrics that are not only beautiful but also sustainable, such as organic...
Can Vegans Date Non-Vegans?
Jill Crosby
Is it possible to date a non-vegan? Yes, most definitely. Is it ideal? No, but there’s more to it than that. Based on the Match Questions from GreenSingles.com, the majority of members say that it’s their “preference, but not mandatory”, and that “it would make things easier”. About 10% say it’s “extremely important” (in other words a “must”). Respect is one of the key factors when it comes to dating a non-vegan—respect in both directions, that is. The majority of vegans converted to veganism at one point in their lives, and based on the answers above, most vegans wouldn’t want to miss out on an incredible person because they are not a vegan. Keep in mind that there is a huge spectrum out here. Maybe your potential partner is...
Abandon These Habits To Encourage Personal Growth
Erin Reynolds
Embarking on a journey of personal improvement is a bold venture that necessitates adopting beneficial habits and shedding those that hinder our progress. This pathway to self-discovery and fulfillment challenges us to confront and discard behaviors that restrict our growth and happiness. It's a journey that transforms our lives, demanding both courage and commitment to change. In this article, courtesy of Green Singles, we’ll go over a few habits you can let go of in order to facilitate positive change.
The Best Bedding for Eco-Conscious Green Singles
Lewis Young
For Green Singles (and also green couples for that matter,) a sustainable and cruelty-free lifestyle is key motivator for how we live our lives. A green lifestyle touches on every point of interaction we have throughout our day; from using non-plastic coffee cups, wearing sustainable, cruelty-free clothing and sleeping in organic bedding. Yep, even the bedding you sleep on requires a conscious choice from you if you’re a true green single. While living a more conscious lifestyle might require more energy from us for more awareness around our decision making, there are massive benefits to maintaining a ‘green’ lifestyle. Specifically speaking, sleeping in sustainable, organic materials has incredible benefits that not every green single knows about. These benefits aren’t just their impact on the world, either. They impact your physical health,...
Gifts from the Heart for Your Vegan Lover
Ali Parsons
With the steady rise of green and sustainable living becoming a normal part of life, diets (and lifestyles) like veganism and vegetarianism have taken a solid foothold. With at least 6% of Americans reportedly self-identifying as vegans, the vegan lifestyle has begun to affect all parts of society. Along with it comes the growth of like-minded support forums, groups, and dating sites, completely changing how we interact. With this change in interactions comes new ways to win the heart and love of a companion. When romance is budding (and/or Valentine's Day is nearing) with your new vegan lover, consider these gift...
How Adopting A Green Lifestyle Changes The Way You Date
Jill Crosby
You’re single, vegan or vegetarian, have an organic garden, compost and live in a sustainable house powered by solar energy. You conserve water, hardly produce any trash, shop at second hand stores and have an extremely eco-conscious lifestyle. First off, THANK YOU! You are setting the example for how humans need to evolve and be stewards of our precious Mother Earth. You rock! Most vegans and vegetarians that live a “forest green” life strongly prefer their partner be on the same green page. Dating someone that loves steak, drives a Hummer and is generally wasteful is usually a deal breaker. It’s certainly much easier to date and potentially marry someone that closely matches your diet...